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Calling ourselves a kibbutz, we             many years to come. We try not to
             sometimes ruffle feathers. “You aren't a           privilege one over the other, because
             real kibbutz! Where's the single shared            everyone's contributions today are
             bank account? Where are the workers in             valuable. A resident who is moving away
             the orange groves?” To be fair, the same           next month has an equal voice in choosing
             questions can be asked of most kibbutzim           new community members, even though she
             today, and we figure a little                      won't live with them. Some tension,
             experimentation couldn't hurt a distressed         however, is unavoidable. Kibbutzniks who
             movement - but we do struggle with this            have been around tend to accrue power
             “kibbutz” ideal ourselves. Our internal            through knowledge; and those who want to
             challenges are more basic than economic            stay to raise families are naturally more
             philosophy. They are,                                               interested in long-term
             simply: land, children, and                                         community planning.
             commitment.                                                                Living together
                    Children are a                                               with these challenges is
             challenge, because today                                            not bad. If anything, it
             the Kibbutz is a                                                    pushes us to become more
             community of young                                                  understanding,
             pioneers in a young city                                            compassionate, and better
             where we come to pursue                                             communicators. The
             careers, education, and                                             Ravenna Kibbutz is hard to
             personal growth. Sometimes we half-                define on paper, but the experience day-
             jokingly call the Kibbutz “Jewish summer           to-day is deep and real. Our conflicts light
             camp for adults.” But we all think a               the way to growth, together and as
             community like ours would be a wonderful           individuals - and no one will ever claim that
             place for children. So as some of us look          life on the Kibbutz is boring!
             ahead to starting our families, we wonder                 Our other unofficial motto is, “The
             how to balance space and resources, such           Ravenna Kibbutz: company when you want
             that children growing up here would not            it, solitude when you need it, and cholent*
             prevent adults from feeling like they are          when you least expect it!” It's a statement
             equally free to keep                                               of life balance - community
             growing up here as well                                            support, personal growth
             (making “that's what she                                           and wellbeing, cultural
             said” jokes all the way).                                          belonging, and the
             In an American culture                                             playfulness that makes the
             where moving away from                                             whole process not merely
             family is a standard part                                          bearable but fun - and it's
             of maturation, trying to                                           not clear, even after we've
             build a community where                                            built so much, what on
             people in different                                                earth this community will
             stages of life feel equally at home and            look like in three years, much less thirty.
             empowered requires us to overcome                  Still, so long as we can speak that motto
             fundamental notions of who our fellows             and feel its truth, equally in seriousness
             are.                                               and in laughter, then I can say it will have
                    Our community demands a lot of its          been entirely worthwhile.
             residents - money, time, patience, and
             tolerance - but we have stopped short of           joel@ravennakibbutz.org
             demanding long-term commitment. Some               http://ravennakibbutz.org
             residents come and go. Others have been
             here from the beginning and would stay for         *Cholent is a traditional Jewish stew.


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