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together with their parents. Later the           age of the kibbutz, there was a real
               kids began eating together with their            feeling of vitality, a strong radical
               friends from the kids houses. Many               ideology, and life was generally fun.
               families ate together in the dining hall,        Festivals were attended by most people,
               some families ate supper at home. What           with the kids often playing a central
               the kibbutz gave was the opportunity to          role by presenting some song or play or
               choose, to be either with your friends           other show. Celebrations helped to
               or your family, a safety valve that              cement the community together, and
               probably helped many families get                often ended with big, long and loud rock
               through those periods when one member            parties, where the drink flowed freely.
               needs a little more space, a little
               privacy.                                         On the kibbutz, when we joined, we did
                                                                not have the freedom to add on to our
               When we became members of Kibbutz                houses. If you felt you needed extra
               Gezer in 1986, the community was                 space, a room for your kids, for
               growing rapidly, just topping 100 full           example, the issue had to go through
               members, not counting those in the               members and building committees
               process, volunteers and children. There          before anything was done. Larger
               were over 200 people actually living             families were given extra space, but it
               there in total. I remember being told            was a long procedure. Gradually there
               that it was one of the most rapidly              developed a feeling that this was all a
               growing kibbutz communities in the               bit old fashioned, and that people
               country. There were really no limits to          should be able to do things themselves.
               growth, we were applying for loans to            I walled in our back porch, which was
               build a new dining hall, and were planning       OK as long as there were big gaps open
               for a 400 to 600 seating capacity. A             to the world. During the winter,
               new neighbourhood had just been built,           however, the rain might blow in, or it
               another one was being planned, and               got too cold to sit outside comfortably.
               additional income generating                     I put in some simple doors and windows,
               enterprises were being contemplated.             and got a lot of criticism. My defence
                                                                was that all the work had been done in
               Candidates for membership were not               my spare time, using largely found
               just individuals and young families,             materials, and any purchases I made
               groups also came. They were organised            came out of my pocket money. The
               through the kibbutz movement, some               counter argument ran as follows: I was
               came from abroad, others were young              using my skill to enhance my standard of
               Israelis. Their initial application was as       living above that of other members.
               a group, but each person had to go               Another member, lacking the handyman
               through the candidacy and membership             skill that I had, would be forced to hire
               process as an individual. Not everyone           a builder to do the same as I had done,
               stayed. A group of Brazilians came just          and that, we all agreed, was stepping
               before we arrived, several of them               over the line of acceptability.
               became members, but within a decade
               there was not a single one of them left          The times were changing on the kibbutz
               on Gezer.                                        while this argument ran, and soon
                                                                afterwards a more open policy was
               I look back to this time as the golden           accepted. It was interesting to see how




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